A personals ad appearing in our local paper recently read as follows: “Seeking single male under forty, attractive, spiritual, not religious, who likes theater, conversation, long walks on beaches.” (Please note: I read this ad for research purposes only; please do not write or call.) Spirituality is in! Monks can go platinum with recordings of chant, books on self-help spirituality hang on supermarket bookracks, while television mystics can teach you about releasing your